Dum Dee Dum... I am not a super hero neither am i spiderman. I am going to save the world... like as if you would believe. I am a maniac. I came from an outer space which is filled with water. I learn swimming at the age of zero.I wail like a cry baby. I crawl like spiderman, i fly like superman, i drive like batman. I live in wonderland. Rugrats is my friend, so is peter pan.
1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you. Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship. There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.
3. Do not get hang up on your past. Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough.
4. Do not look into images. How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules. Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it’s worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him. Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy. It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s the guy who’s calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).
8. There is a guy who will value you. There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.
9. Always be the only one, no matter what. Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can’t leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.
10. He must respect you. No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.
11. If he fooled you, end it. Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.
12. Never start a relationship the wrong way. Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.
13. Do not force yourself into a relationship. Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn’t come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.
14. Do not settle. If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.
15. A relationship has to have love. Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.
16. Don’t be afraid to be single. It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.
17. Be a good girl. Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.
18. Love without limits. Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn’t give your all, you get hurt for nothing.
19. You will get over him. Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.
20. Be the one. Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t hinder his gimmicks. Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don’t be easy. Don’t be like every other girl he had in his life.
COPAST DARI SALAH SATU BLOG YG SAYA GAK KENAL PUNYA SIAPA.. ITS AWESOME! SILAHKAN DIBACAAAAA :)
karena facebook lagi gabisa dibuka, gue mo posting sesuatu rahasia *halah* yg bikin gue SHOCK bangeeeeeeet! tapi ini agak secret gituuu deh hahha *kalo rahasia knp diposting coba? zzzz*
gini, tadi malem itu ada salah satu temen gue chat di Y!M gini : xxx : Fury, lo mau gue blablabla in ke si blablabla gak? Ratu Fury : HAH? emg lo mau ngapain ke dia? xxx : mau gue blablabla hehheh mau gak? seriusan nih! cepet mau gak? xxx : BUZZ! Ratu Fury : HAH? terserah lo sih, heheh :P eh tapi gue kasian ama blablabla euy Ratu Fury : emg caranya digimanain? xxx : yah gimana welah gmpng, hha lagian kemaren aku chat ama blablabla udh pake emoteicon blablabla trus dianya juga ngebales pake blablabla hha xxx : tp aku kasian ama blablabla euy, dia bilang sm aku kalo dia gamau blablabla si blablabla hha xxx : ntar dia ceurik darah deui hha wkwkwkw Ratu Fury : HAHAHAHANJAAAAANG dia jg bilang ke gue dulu gamau blablabla gue, tp udh blablabla mah dia lupa sm gue hoek najis :P xxx : hha sabar buu, ckckc sama aja kayak aku ama si blablabla
Oke, maaf banyak yg disensor soalnya ini RAHASIA BEEGEETEE hahaah :P itu intinya ya, jadi gimana dong nih? gue bingung! mmmmmm -____________- gue jadi makin gak karuan, pengen banget nerima tawaran itu, tapi gue gak se jahat itulaaah, tapi gue pengen bgt tuh ngelakuin misi itu aduuuuuh galau hahha :P
ngeh, gue nanya ama adul, she said "JANGAN FUR, JANGAN COBA-COBA BUAT BLABLABLA, GA BAIK" heeeeee OMFG tapi ini kesempatan buat gue untuk blablabla sama dia zzz tapi yah akhirnya gue gaikutan deh, gue cuma nunngu kabar dibalik layar aja :)) hehehe
malem ini malem dimana gue pengen ngerubah pola hidup gue yg selama sebulan kebelakang bener2 kacau and worst bgt lah yeeiyee lah secara gue selama sebulan ini berkelumit sama masa lalu, wleee :P gue, menginginkan perubahan yg "berarti", nah lo maksud gue itu perubahan yg memang berubah, bukan cuma omongan doang hehe you know banyaak bgt nasehat-nasehat yg masuk sama gue tuh intinya ya berubahlah pola hiduplo, and blalalah. gue nya sih angguk-angguk aja, padahal selama ini gada perubahan yg berarti dalam diri gue, yg ada gue udah jatoh tertimpa duren *lho?* makin terpuruk ajaaaaaa gityuu hidup gue ini, uhm dasar anak muda :P okeh okeh balik ke perubahan, gue pengen ngerubah pola pikir gue yang masih berharap adanya doraemon ngedatengin gue bawa mesin waktu, hahaha fuuurryy lo idup di jaman manaaaa?! ehgileee sarap lo nunggu si doraemon dateng ampe lo di surga *amin* entar juga die kaga bakal datengin lo! pikiran gue memang agak sedikit terganggu gara-gara pereviewan otak yg agak mutar muter ke masa lalu dan masa sekarang, hell yeah tau kenapa? tau ini semua gara-gara siapa? K-A-M-U! hmm, tenang-tenang, K-A-M-U disini adalah seorang anak manusia, laki-laki, berinisial B-R *lho? itu bukan inisial ya?* hahaha frontal gw keluar :P oke back to the topic, lo gausah bahas siapa B-R, anak mana B-R, ada apa dengan B-R, ini bukan masalah ttg B-R *yee tapi dia yg buat ini masalah* hahaha stop frontal-ing :P lo tau gue? gue adalah salah satu orang yg famous *jih najis bgt gue hoek :P* hehehhe bukan bukan, maksud gue, gue itu salah satu orang yg suka jadi pembicaraan hot public dengan segala macam realita kehidupan di dalamnya *dih ko gw narsis bt ya :P* hahaha jgn bahas seberapa kadar narsis dlm tubuh gw karena ini sudah melekat dlm daging gue he makin ngacooo :P ya, gue pikir kasian juga yak orang-orang pada bosen gityuu topic yg lagi gue banget nya hanya ttg "penyesalan, pengen balikan, nunggu doraemon bawain mesin waktu, and blalalah ttg masa lalu" yaah walopun sebenernya topic itu jg tetep aja hooot karena gue yg jadi objeknya tapikan lama-lama penonton bosen kali yak? hihiihi :P nah oleh karena itu gue mau bikin hot gossip *lho?* hahah bukaan-bukaan maksud gue, gue pengen opini ttg "fury yg pengen balikan, fury yg nyesel atas masa lalunya, and blalalah" itu hilang! gue bosen deh ngeluh ato curhat sm orang yg isinya ttg itu mulu, gue bosen orang nilai gue "si fury tuh pgn balikan sm mantannya" helloooooo babyyyyy hilangkan itu semua yah! gue pengen bikin fury yg ceria penuh canda tawa melewati masa mudanya itu hadir lagi buat jd hot issue orang-orang ;) gue pengen bikin sekolah gempar sama adanya anak 10.5 yg cheerful dan penuh kegembiraan, gue pengen bikin status status facebook gue dengan emotion =)), gue pengen nyampah friend note dengan acara-acara gokill yg udh gue buat sama temen-temen, gue pengen pasang stat Y!M dengan cerita-cerita gombal gue, hay please gue masih mudaaaaa gue gamau terlihat tua dengan status "in a relationship, or married, or it's complicated" oke single pun cukup ya gaaaak? yeeiyee lah hahaha :P gue juga ogah terlihat dewasa dengan status bertabur konflik cinta, ya cemburu lah, ya berantemlah, ya ini deh ya itu deh, hahhaa mencintai semua manusia juga udah cukup mewakili kaan, ohoho atoo jgn-jgn cuma mau pada sombong udh punya pasangan? hihihi kita yg single ga pernah iri kok sm kaliaan yg taken :) soalnya yg taken pun gak ngejamin kalian bahagia, kan yah? hehe :P okeh udah jgn banyak ngawur deh, jadi yah gue tuh pengen bikin sebuah terobosan baru di idup gue ini, jadi ntar kalian para penonton setia intrik cerita fury season 3 ini *lho?* makin rameeeee aja gituuu ahahah :P ehgile sarap udah aha mau serius neeeh :P gue ngambil keputusan yg isn't easy as my imagine ini emg S-U-S-A-H bgt, lo yg nanti mungkin bakal ada di posisi gue pasti bakal ngerasain gimana susahnya nerima kenyataan, gimana susahnya lupain someone, danblalah. gue bersedia ngambil jalan ini karena; 1. gue kasian sm diri gue sendiri yg udah kacau bgt cuma gara2 masalah sepele, gue takut gue gamasuk jurusan IPA, gue takut gamasuk FK, gue takut gabisa nyapai cita-cita gue cuma gara-gara hal yg gue perbuat di kelas 3 smp. dan gue harus gak ngebolehin kejadian itu terjadi !! dan caranya adalah ----> UBAH SEMUANYA DARI SEKARANG 2. gue kasian sama penonton setia gue *angger* gue kasian sm kaliaan yg sedih liat gue murung terus hehehe :P gue janji gue bakal jadi fury yg dulu yg cheerful hehehe yah walau gue tau itu susah bgt, dan daripada gue bohongin perasaan sendiri gue mo jujur aja ya, gue blm bisa sepenuhnya melupakan dia tapi ya daripada gue sakit hati kan cara ampunya adalah ---> FORGET ABOUT HIM, CAUSE EX IS THE PAST 3. gue sangat kecewa dengan perlakuan dia sama gue setelah kita putus, hell yeah baby, lo bilang setelah kita putus kita bakal jadi best-best-friend, tapi mana buktinya? malah jadi banyak masalah kea gini. apa lo ga malu sama semua perkataan lo sama gue dulu? hmm okelah don't judge him, dia jg manusia, pasti punya salah. tp yaa jujur, perkataan lo yg bilang lo itu udh kecewa berat sama gue, bikin gue ILANG FEELING sm lo, oh baby lo ngga mikir apa selama ini lo yg paling gue sayang? apa lo ga sayang sm gue dari dulu? gue ngga ngerti-- kalo dipikir-pikir yg seharusnya kecewa itu gue bukan lo, gue yg kecewa sama lo, lo bilang lo udh cinta mati sm gue, mana buktinya!? baru putus sebulan lo udh jadian lagi. gimana sih yank? :P hoek aneh aneh aja kamu say, muaach :-* hahaha gue kangen lo bgt deh kalo lo tau! sebenci-bencinya gue, gue tuh masih inget sama lo, sama semua kenangan lo, hey baby lo inget ga? he biarin dah mo inget ato ga juga i dont care :P gue bener bener kecewa sama lo yg katanya mo rubah sikap jadi lebih baik, yasud lah take care honey :-* cara gue buat mengobati kekecewaan gue adalah ---> balas dendam! hehe kaga ding gue kan baik :P 4. gue gamau ngecewain sahabat-sahabat gue yg udh dengan setia dengerin keluhan gue, thankyou sayang gue bertekad buat ubah pola hidup deh sekarang :)kalian udh sangat baik nyariin gue gebetan, buat gue happy sama banyolan kalian yg exxxxxtra garig krenyees hahah soalnya suma gue yg lucu :P ga ding canda babiii, eheh babyy maksute :D yasud saya ingin buat kalian bahagia dengan cara ---> berubah jadi gue yg baru deeeeh hihi 5. gue sangat KASIHAN sama dia dan pacarnya, you know gue ini type cewek yg egois dan gamau kalah, lah masa iyaa gue dikalahin anak itu? hahah gue juga bakal bikin dia kalah dan gue tau dia bakal kalah telak di hadapan gue wkwk kan jahat gue keluar, tapi gue sedikit kasihan sama dia dan pacarnya, gue tau mereka hanya akan ngomongin gue di belakang dan ga berani ngadepin gue langsung, cemen lo :P jadi drpd gue ngomong sama tembok berambut panjang keriwil semampai anak basket yg cuantiek abiezz itu mending gue ngomong sama pantat sapi yg lebih terhormat drpd sama lo muahahaha :P gue salut deh lo udh gue gencet masih aja gede tuh badan lo wkwk intinya --> gue sedikit merelakan lo sama dia lah abis lo sih gue ajak ribut cuma bisa senyam senyum sinis ama gw :P udah ah gue gamau bikin ribut di sini, inget gue mencoba merubah semua pola hidup gue yg asalnya menengok ke belakang jadi berdiri tegak melihat jauh ke depan YUHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU SEE MY NEW FURY ON WELCOMING MY BIRTHDAY, 04 OCTOBER 1009, WELCOME MY 15th :-* FURY, THE NEW BIG GIRL! OUYEAAAAAAAAAH \m/
Dear Ratu Ismy Fury Asih, berikut ini adalah hasil Test psikologi situasi kamu:
* kamu orang yang suka menyimpan segalanya untuk diri sendiri * teman manapun yang datang, kamu akan terima dan mempercayai mereka sepenuhnya * apa yang kamu inginkan dalam hidupmu cuma setengah terpenuhi * kamu lemah dalam hidup ini dan cenderung rapuh * kamu memiliki gairah seks tinggi!!! Tidak bisa hidup tanpa seks... * kamu punya sedikit teman baik dalam hidupmu * hubungan terakhir kamu tidak baik dan tidak kamu ingat dalam memorimu * ketika pasanganmu di dekat kamu, kamu akan berada di dekat dia terus * ketika pasangan kamu tidak ada, kamu masih memikirkan dia dan akan tetap setia padanya, tidak melirik yang lain * ego kamu rata-rata * kepribadianmu rendah hati * ikatan dengan tidak teman-temanmu tidak begitu kuat/sedang-sedang aja * kamu benar-benar suka/mencintai pasanganmu * pasanganmu type rumahan dan orang yang sederhana * kamu akan mencari pasanganmu kapanpun kamu ketemu masalah.
What the hell happened to me I've become such a mess I'm a walking disaster On a road full of stress You got all that you wanted You got the good part of me And I'm getting kind of dizzy From this crazy disease
So get me a doctor I need a repair I'm pushing my limits And pulling out my hair
And it's all because of you I just run into walls and trip over my shoes I get up, I fall down, every time you come around I'm not cool It's all because of you It's all because of you
You've got me spinning like a record That's already worn out And I'm kicking and I'm screaming And repeating myself I gotta hold myself together and not fall apart If it's gonna be forever tell me where do I start
So send me a signal Up in the air You're pushing my buttons I'm pulling out my hair
And it's all because of you I just run into walls and trip over my shoes I get up, I fall down, every time you come around I'm not cool It's all because of you
I can't help it Can't stop it I know it's all your fault But I like it and you love me Yeah yeah yeah
It's all because of you I just run into walls and trip over my shoes I get up, I fall down, every time you come around I'm not cool It's all because and it's all because of you I just run into walls and trip over my shoes I get up, I fall down, every time you come around I'm not cool It's all because of you It's all because of you
huah mengakhiri malam ini gue tutp dengan lagu puffy - All Because of You, mata gue udh nagtuk nihhhh lagian udh gada temen buat online, yaudaaaaah see you tomorrow ya kalo sempet gue posting lg deh.. babaaaaaay :-*
I love you but it’s not so easy to make you here with me I wanna touch and hold you forever But you’re still in my dream And I can't stand to wait ‘till nite is coming to my life But I still have a time to break a silence When you love someone just be brave to say that you want him to be with you when you hold your love don’t ever let it go or you will loose your chance to make your dreams come true... I used to hide and watch you from a distance and i knew you realized I was looking for a time to get closer at least to say... “hello” And I can’t stand to wait your love is coming to my life When you love someone just be brave to say that you want him to be with you when you hold your love don’t ever let it go or you will loose your chance to make your dreams come true... And I never thought that I’m so strong I stuck on you and wait so long but when love comes it can’t be wrong Don’t ever give up just try and try to get what you want Cause love will find the way.... When you love someone just be brave to say that you want him to be with you when you hold your love don’t ever let it go or you will loose your chance to make your dreams come true...
oh gooooooooood, i like this night, ditemani laptop hitamku yg agak rese dan modem mobi-ku yg suka disconnect tiba2, dengan Facebook dan Y! Messenger with dewi, gue abisin nih malem dengan nyari lyrics lagu yg lagi gue banget.. oooh i feel so tired, huh sialan lah masa lalu gue bikin gue ancur kea gini zzzzz i hate that!